Difficulties That Include Dating A Mexican..
hey people welcome back to our Route what was that? two weeks earlier we created a video clip in which Joss was speaking about the down sides which come with dating a German with dating him, especially well.. effectively these days we’re gonna… are you alright? I actually have allergies dude! nowadays we’re about to transform it around and I’m about to let you know all the problems that come with dating a Mexican much more precisely, this specific a single on this page I’m so fearful of this video! I’m about to get offended in a major way having said that i know you cherish I and me know you confidentially adore all those aspects of me you think so? I’m confident not every them… how dare you guy since like I mentioned before: Before we start I want to mention one important thing I love you guys, i have a lot to say…. I like Mexicans. I like this one especially Mexico is certainly a diversified nation and so are the people.. indeed that’s extremely correct we are available in every single personality, form, color and shape and then we don’t would like to generalize anything.. we’re not declaring which every Mexican does those things! when we say “problems”, these things are not bad we mean that it was problematic for me as a foreigner because it was something new and I had to get used to it and not because I’m a weirdo just like in the last video I’m gonna start with the most obvious problem you have to learn English and even if your partner knows English, like she does the parents probably don’t. that’s true there’s a lot of people in Mexico that speak English or at least they know the basics but they’re so scared of speaking because of their accent or something this bbw lesbiams problem gets even bigger when you think about how big families are in Mexico and that’s the next problem you’re gonna meet a lot of people whenever you meet your boyfriend or girlfriend in Mexico and it’s Christmas, New Year, Independence Day, a wedding a wedding… there are like weddings every month yes thats’ true! be ready to satisfy around 100 or 200 people some day which are area of the family members that are only section of the family members! not even friends I don’t know if it’s the same for you guys but in my family, my grandparents from my mom’s side had 11 children the first time that I went to Mexico it was for Christmas I had to meet literally everybody from her family I probably know four names of her entire family don’t get overwhelmed guys… just say hi and act like you know everybody with the next point we’re gonna arrive at a very important part of Mexico: the meal you will gain body weight and also this is caused by 2 things: first of all Mexican mums love to make you eat and they give you a lot of food and even when you’re done they ask you are you still hungry? have this! plus additionally it’s difficult to say no since Mexican meals is very delightful Oh yeah my our god I overlook it a whole lot… remember to deliver me Enchiladas Potosinas remember to! for me personally as well remember to another reason why you’re gonna get extra fat as a result of foods are simply because it’s inexpensive compared to Germany true! In the last video just mentioned that Germans are usually on time and that was a problem for her because she wasn’t used to that. yeah for me it’s the other way around because she tends to be late all the time… but you too sometimes., lets go to the next point now. I’m basically also late I’m like Mexican.. you’re fifty percent Mexican that’s really a stereotype that we dislike I dislike whenever people inform me: you’re gonna be late because you’re Mexican but I’m late constantly! even though I consider my finest… that’s one thing I’ve fought with for a long time the next position which i had to become accustomed to a whole lot: you may get scared while driving I don’t desire to generate in Mexico and also as soon as your partner, in such a case she, is traveling Mexico you, feel as if: where by would be the guidelines? where are the lines on the floor that explain to you in which lane you need to go and the holes guy oh yeah my the lord there exists 1 streets I need to take each time I visit my house it has numerous slots.. I learned them my coronary heart I’m like… once you get for an intersection there is not actually a principle which says who can go initially Sure! – additionally, there are no indicators you always say, the main one inside the most significant road could go initial but for reasons unknown all of the Mexicans know the best places to push it’s common sense bro! it absolutely was the worst in Mexico Town there was 1 very busy streets so we were actually provided by a compact neighborhood and all sorts of the people from your modest road were just proceeding this way all around all the other cars in Mexico Area I discovered my life pass through my brain for actual like six instances and the drivers of your ubers had been like: yeah wassup bro! how’s the elements today? speaking with us ultimately is in fact fairly amazing because Mexicans definitely learn how to push in insane conditions! alright the next position is actually a humorous a single but in addition a regrettable one.. occasionally for squares of toilet papers is all that you’ll get exactly where would you expertise that? significantly! we had been inside a industry in Mexico Area and I needed to see the potty and also this man in-front literally gave me a number of squares of bathroom paper here, do your personal style! and i also was like: I don’t know if that’s enough you knew it wasn’t enough! – No and I informed him: should i have another one? I didn’t know it was a problem to suit your needs I mean in Germany you will discover toilet paper appropriate next to the toilet.. yeah in Mexico way too! yeah ok that doesn’t occur often.. We have to state this taken place like a second time to me… haha he’s overreacting! Before – in the toilet she would ask you, when I was in primary school there was a woman giving the paper oh yeah you told me that: number 1 or # 2? and if you say one she gives you one square and if you say two she would give you two or three great on the other side that’s a good thing because it’s environment-friendly you’re not using more than you need so good for you guys now we get into the real stuff oh no on to the real st- .. I don’t want real stuff this problem comes up even before you start dating Mexicans are very touchy for us foreigners that might be a problem because we might think “oh my god she is flirting with me or he is flirting with me”, but no! this is merely the way they are they’re this way… so don’t obtain your expectations up… They’re obviously girls that are not jealous at all what I’ve experienced with her in the beginning and with your friends when they talk about stuff they can get furious OMG my friends are gonna hate you next time we go to Mexico they are very like “this guy is mine, -OMG it’s crazy I’m so unaware of my body when I’m talking to someone when I first moved to Germany I met a girl at university and we were friends but we were just starting to be friends and one time we were waiting for a bus and I was like “I’m so tired” and I did this to lay on her shoulder and she moved her shoulder very very slowly and my head fell of course guys I’m not saying that every Mexican is touchy let us know in the comments what do you think the next problem is one that mostly foreigner guys might experience because Mexican girls can be very competitive or in other words kind of jealous I’m not saying that every Mexican girl is jealous! and I’m not permitting him venture out! ” which is a little excessive people but… should I point out to you of yesterday? when we were walking on the street in Germany a guy stared at me and you literally stared back at him like this for five minutes until he stopped staring at me but you’re totally right in that regard when I started dating you I noticed that my perception of love was completely twisted because of what I was surrounded by but now she changed completely she’s super not jealous anymore, which is a little bit sad because it was fun to watch dude character development I’m totally like… -fine you are like.. and when I started dating you I had been like “whoa a completely new w0rld! ” We have a theory though and i also know this really is about to cause me to audio crazy but hear me out I feel as if plenty of this thinking is formed by telenovelas. Don’t arrive for me personally! have you ever observed a Mexican telenovela? -no -the women are incredibly spectacular and they’re so envious and they’re so like “he’s mine she’s never about to get him from me! ” exactly why is this young lady looking at you? this stupid $·Percent·” footnote: guys can also be very jealous so it’s not only girls just saying don’t come for us the next point is something that I had to get used to and I still have to get used to because it’s still the same it will never change Mexicans show their emotions very very strongly, it has a good side and a bad side Mexicans really show you how much they love you, they’re very affectionate she tells me she loves me like 20 times a day -and Janik it’s like “same” when you’re fighting the emotions come out without a filter and the these emotions are not pretty okay in my defense… I have nothing to defend but I have to say I love this about Mexicans as a foreigner if you date a Mexican I feel like there’s a very high chance you have never experienced anything like that before, this amount of love so it really changes your perspective also about love I think your perspective completely changed yeah the loving side it’s bigger than anything else -yes, yes baby yes! see that’s what I mean.. now we get to a very interesting point and I call it “the gentleman dilemma” the thing is that in Mexico a lot of guys do very “gentlemany” things for example they buy flowers, they pick them up at their house, they open the doors and all that stuff so when a Mexican girl is dating a German she’s kind of expecting the same because she doesn’t know that he’s different so then German guys have to step up their game times a thousand ha ha ha ha to make her feel loved, because in her mind this is how love looks like and then I come along, the total opposite it’s basically just a cultural difference and you just have to meet in the middle I would say yes, now if you’re a girl from another country and you’re dating a Mexican guy then it might be super cool for you because he is just picking you up, he brings you roses and you’re like “what is this? ” in the end of the day it helped both of us because now I’m more romantic and I’m more cold-hearted ha ha ha ha that is also a plus -no, I lowered my expectations with you no, big time though.. expectations are the mother of disappointment and resentment now we get to the last point of this video and that’s a very difficult one it has roots in the old traditions of Mexicans or Europeans or religion even as a foreigner you cannot expect that’s and sleepovers a thing that I had to deal with a lot in the beginning like it was super difficult for me to understand why am I not able to stay in the same room as my girlfriend? in Germany people can remain on the girlfriend’s residence or girls can tell the boyfriend’s residence even when they’re below 18, probably 16 they are able to stay in the friends of boyfriend’s house sinners! and in Mexico they think the most awful of folks, they are performing some quite terrible stuff that they could not do anywhere else one of the more frequent messages I get from partners is girls which can be really asking me how do you make Janik understand that he cannot continue to be? or how can I make my moms and dads understand? it’s so difficult. -it’s challenging for us also -yes both sides simply because at the start you couldn’t understand it you have been like “I don’t get it” I had been 22 or 23 years if we began dating and i also was like “I’m so outdated and so i are unable to stay in the identical space as her” and my sister is even old and her boyfriend couldn’t stay there I’m a grown-up. If you have a girlfriend from Mexico and you’re having these issues just believe her when she says “this is how it works” -you might not be able to understand why but you just have to accept it I accept it, I respect it whenever I’m in Mexico -or if you like it then you should put a ring on it everything changes it is crazy, -I don’t get it either but it’s just how life works in Mexico.. we don’t want to get deep into it but! Once a ring is on that finger you’re free to go And also this might be more a problem of smaller cities like SLP where everything is like a double moral SLP is not that small. once. – But compared to Mexico City I don’t know if it works differently there let us know in the comments -yeah guys we’re super curious to see what you have to say about this and how does it work wherever you’re from these were the things that I had to get used to in the beginning of us dating obviously love is stronger than all of these problems together and there are so many more good things that come when you date a Mexican or a German oh yeah and that list is way longer so if you want to see a video about that please let us know in the comments down below and if you’re just starting a relationship with a Mexican or with a German hang in there talk about things, communicate, meet in the middle so we hope you liked this video if you liked it give us a thumbs up, subscribe to our channel if you’re not already and we’ll see you next week Adios muchachos Tschuss!