Troubles That Are Included With Dating A Mexican..
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hello guys welcome back to our Channel what was that? 14 days ago we made a video where Joss was speaking about the down sides which come with dating a German with dating him, specifically effectively.. well these days we’re going to… are you currently ok? We have allergies dude! these days we’re gonna turn it close to and I’m about to tell you all the problems which come with dating a Mexican a lot more precisely, this unique 1 in this article I’m so fearful of this movie! I’m about to get offended big time however i know you cherish I and me know you secretly really like those aspects of me you think so? I’m confident not every them… how dare you dude since like I explained last time: Before we start I want to mention one important thing I love you guys, i have a lot to say…. I like Mexicans. I adore this particular one specifically Mexico is an extremely diverse country and are therefore individuals.. yes that’s very correct we can be found in every form, personality, shape and color so we don’t desire to generalize anything at all.. we’re not professing which every Mexican does those activities! These things are not bad we mean that it was problematic for me as a foreigner because it was something new and I had to get used to it and not because I’m a weirdo just like in the last video I’m gonna start with the most obvious problem you have dating bbws to learn English and even if your partner knows English, like she does the parents probably don’t. that’s true there’s a lot of people in Mexico that speak English or at least they know the basics but they’re so scared of speaking because of their accent or something this problem gets even bigger when you think about how big families are in Mexico and that’s the next problem you’re gonna meet a lot of people whenever you meet your boyfriend or girlfriend in Mexico and it’s Christmas, New Year, Independence Day, a wedding a wedding… there are like weddings every month yes thats’ true, when we say “problems”! be ready to satisfy about 100 or 200 people in a day that are portion of the household which can be only section of the household! If it’s the same for you guys but in my family, my grandparents from my mom’s side had 11 children the first time that I went to Mexico it was for Christmas I had to meet literally everybody from her family I probably know four names of her entire family don’t get overwhelmed guys… just say hi and act like you know everybody with the next point we’re gonna arrive at a very important part of Mexico, not even friends I don’t know: the foodstuff you will get body weight and also this is because of two things: first of all Mexican mums love to make you eat and they give you a lot of food and even when you’re done they ask you are you still hungry? have this! plus additionally it’s challenging to say no since Mexican foods are super tasty Oh yeah my lord I overlook it so much… please deliver me Enchiladas Potosinas please! for me too remember to another reason why you’re gonna get extra fat due to the food is due to the fact it’s really cheap in comparison to Germany true! lets go to the next point now, in the last video just mentioned that Germans are usually on time and that was a problem for her because she wasn’t used to that. yeah for me it’s the other way around because she tends to be late all the time… but you too sometimes.. I’m basically also late I’m like Mexican.. you’re 50 % Mexican that’s basically a stereotype i detest I dislike when people inform me: you’re gonna be past due due to the fact you’re Mexican but I’m later at all times! even when I try my greatest… that’s one thing I’ve had trouble with forever another position i was required to get accustomed to a good deal: you can find afraid whilst driving I don’t want to drive in Mexico and also once your spouse, in this instance she, is driving a car Mexico you, think that: in which are definitely the rules? where are definitely the collections on the ground that inform you in which lane you have to go as well as the holes guy oh my our god there may be a single streets I need to take every time I visit my home it has countless slots.. I discovered them my heart I’m like… once you get to a intersection there is not actually a principle which says who are able to go initially Of course! – there are also no signs you generally tell me, normally the one from the most significant neighborhood may go initially but for whatever reason each of the Mexicans know where you should push it’s sound judgment bro! it absolutely was the most detrimental in Mexico Metropolis there is a single extremely active street so we had been provided by a compact neighborhood and all of the individuals through the tiny road were actually just proceeding this way close to all of the other autos in Mexico City I noticed my life go through my mind for genuine like six instances along with the drivers from the ubers were actually like: yeah wassup bro! how’s the weather conditions right now? conversing with us in the end is really rather remarkable due to the fact Mexicans really realize how to drive in ridiculous scenarios! fine the subsequent point can be a amusing one particular and also a regrettable one.. occasionally for squares of potty papers is all that you’ll get exactly where would you practical experience that? seriously! we had been inside a market place in Mexico Metropolis and so i wished for to attend the potty which guy in-front literally provided 4 squares of toilet pieces of paper on this page, do your personal style! and that i was like: If that’s enough you knew it wasn’t enough, i don’t know! – No and that i advised him: can one have a different one? I didn’t know this was a challenge for you personally After all in Germany you will discover lavatory paper correct next to the potty.. yeah in Mexico way too! yeah fine that doesn’t take place typically.. I have got to say this took place like twice to me… haha he’s overreacting! Before – in the toilet she would ask you, when I was in primary school there was a woman giving the paper oh yeah you told me that: number 1 or second? and if you say one she gives you one square and if you say two she would give you two or three great on the other side that’s a good thing because it’s environment-friendly you’re not using more than you need so good for you guys now we get into the real stuff oh no on to the real st- .. I don’t want real stuff this problem comes up even before you start dating Mexicans are very touchy for us foreigners that might be a problem because we might think “oh my god she is flirting with me or he is flirting with me”, but no! this is only the way they are they’re like this… so don’t obtain your expectations up… They’re obviously girls that are not jealous at all what I’ve experienced with her in the beginning and with your friends when they talk about stuff they can get furious OMG my friends are gonna hate you next time we go to Mexico they are very like “this guy is mine, -OMG it’s crazy I’m so unaware of my body when I’m talking to someone when I first moved to Germany I met a girl at university and we were friends but we were just starting to be friends and one time we were waiting for a bus and I was like “I’m so tired” and I did this to lay on her shoulder and she moved her shoulder very very slowly and my head fell of course guys I’m not saying that every Mexican is touchy let us know in the comments what do you think the next problem is one that mostly foreigner guys might experience because Mexican girls can be very competitive or in other words kind of jealous I’m not saying that every Mexican girl is jealous! and I’m not allowing him venture out! ” which is a little bit an excessive amount of people but… do i need to help remind you of yesterday? Which is a little bit sad because it was fun to watch dude character development I’m totally like.., when we were walking on the street in Germany a guy stared at me and you literally stared back at him like this for five minutes until he stopped staring at me but you’re totally right in that regard when I started dating you I noticed that my perception of love was completely twisted because of what I was surrounded by but now she changed completely she’s super not jealous anymore. -okay you are like.. and once I started dating you I used to be like “incredible a whole new w0rld! ” I have a idea though and that i know this really is about to make me audio nuts but hear me out I feel like lots of this pondering is formed by telenovelas. Don’t can come for me! have you ever noticed a Mexican telenovela? -no -the ladies are extremely spectacular and they’re so jealous and they’re so like “he’s my own she’s in no way gonna consider him from me! ” why is this woman looking at you? this mindless $·%·” footnote: guys can also be very jealous so it’s not only girls just saying don’t come for us the next point is something that I had to get used to and I still have to get used to because it’s still the same it will never change Mexicans show their emotions very very strongly, it has a good side and a bad side Mexicans really show you how much they love you, they’re very affectionate she tells me she loves me like 20 times a day -and Janik it’s like “same” when you’re fighting the emotions come out without a filter and the these emotions are not pretty okay in my defense… I have nothing to defend but I have to say I love this about Mexicans as a foreigner if you date a Mexican I feel like there’s a very high chance you have never experienced anything like that before, this amount of love so it really changes your perspective also about love I think your perspective completely changed yeah the loving side it’s bigger than anything else -yes, yes baby yes! In Mexico a lot of guys do very “gentlemany” things for example they buy flowers, they pick them up at their house, they open the doors and all that stuff so when a Mexican girl is dating a German she’s kind of expecting the same because she doesn’t know that he’s different so then German guys have to step up their game times a thousand ha ha ha ha to make her feel loved, because in her mind this is how love looks like and then I come along, the total opposite it’s basically just a cultural difference and you just have to meet in the middle I would say yes, now if you’re a girl from another country and you’re dating a Mexican guy then it might be super cool for you because he is just picking you up, he brings you roses and you’re like “what is this,. That is see that’s what I mean.. now we get to a very interesting point and I call it “the gentleman dilemma” the thing? I lowered my expectations with you no, big time though.. expectations are the mother of resentment and disappointment now we get to the last point of this video and that’s a very difficult one it has roots in the old traditions of Mexicans or Europeans or religion even as a foreigner you cannot expect that’s and sleepovers a thing that I had to deal with a lot in the beginning like it was super difficult for me to understand why am I not able to stay in the same room as my girlfriend, ” in the end of the day it helped both of us because now I’m more romantic and I’m more cold-hearted ha ha ha ha that is also a plus -no? in Germany guys can remain in the girlfriend’s home or girls can tell the boyfriend’s residence even if they’re lower than 18, most likely 16 they may stay at the friends of boyfriend’s property sinners! and in Mexico they think the worst of folks, that they are performing some very terrible stuff that they cannot do any place else probably the most recurrent messages I get from married couples is ladies which are seriously wondering me how do you make Janik realize that he are not able to keep? or how could i make my moms and dads comprehend? it’s so hard. -it’s a hardship on us way too -of course each side since at the start you couldn’t understand it you have been like “I don’t obtain it” I had been 22 or 23 yrs old when we started out dating and so i was like “I’m so older and i also are unable to be in exactly the same space as her” and my sister is even more aged and her partner couldn’t keep there I’m a grown-up. -I don’t get it either but it’s just how life works in Mexico.. we don’t want to get deep into it but if you have a girlfriend from Mexico and you’re having these issues just believe her when she says “this is how it works” -you might not be able to understand why but you just have to accept it I accept it, I respect it whenever I’m in Mexico -or if you like it then you should put a ring on it everything changes it is crazy! once once a ring is on that finger you’re free to go And also this might be more a problem of smaller cities like SLP where everything is like a double moral SLP is not that small.. If it works differently there let us know in the comments -yeah guys we’re super curious to see what you have to say about this and how does it work wherever you’re from these were the things that I had to get used to in the beginning of us dating obviously love is stronger than all of these problems together and there are so many more good things that come when you date a Mexican or a German oh yeah and that list is way longer so if you want to see a video about that please let us know in the comments down if and below you’re just starting a relationship with a Mexican or with a German hang in there talk about things, communicate, meet in the middle so we hope you liked this video if you liked it give us a thumbs up, subscribe to our channel if you’re not already and we’ll see you next week Adios muchachos Tschuss, – But compared to Mexico City I don’t know!